Friday, January 15, 2010

Miscarriage and Life the Life You Want

I received a letter in response to my previous post from someone who experienced extensive losses. For some reason the posting of that letter directly onto the blog did not work. I will respond to this letter through this blog now.

The author was alerting me that my post seemed upfront and "insensitive" to her in her grieving process.
Let me respond. There is no disrespect intended to anyone. Secondly, I realize that if you have any kind of a response you probably are still grieving, and experiencing inner resistance to my words.  I don't address this to any particular person in any particular case, all private work is done personally one-on-one. Whereas all of the audiences' concerns are actual and valid, my intent is to remind all of you that the power of your mind is enormous. "When you have the right conception you will conceive." Direct your thoughts and intentions forward toward what you want.  This is a discussion of the position you can choose to take, a choice you make and not an advice of any kind. This is all there is to say in a nutshell.

I am a hypnotherapist and I work with fertility issues, as well as safe, comfortable and intended birthing of that baby. I work with people who are wiling and able to put their discord behind them and want my help to bring their life to the next level, where they can experience the exquisite life of their intent, not just a mediocre existence. I have consistent success with conception. But this work is not for everyone. It is a very exclusive, intent work only for those who  indeed want to experience extraordinary.

My post was directed to some of my clients as well as for all who are interested. I am glad it stirs up the thinking. If an expression of my opinion, as well as the line of my work is interesting to you, let me know, and we can meet for further discussion. In no way these posts can be considered medical advice. I am  merely suggesting a consideration and change in thought.

Transformational change is the primary direction with my work. It may include shaking your beliefs and myths about yourself. I often emphasize that where you put your attention there you get results. Whereas I sympathyze with your losses, defeats and disappointments, judging from your post, you are a strong person, with determined character, and a will to succeed in having the life that you want. You know exactly what you want. I can see that. Here I am suggesting that you will be able to have what you want when you put your attention to it, all that from the position of opportunity not from the position of lack. Position of opportunity, not a position of lack. Then your life unfolds surprises, including divine timing and soul connection with your baby, lessons learned and peace found from it.

Last month I went overseas to teach spiritual classes to groups of people who lost their loved ones. We spoke on souls connection and lessons learned. Each individual then had a spiritual personal connection with their loved one, and in a state of higher consciousness received channeled answers from their loved ones contributing to learning their lessons. Spiritual soul connection and integration of lessons is tightly connected with loss of loved ones. The group then worked with the intent of creating the outcome for the group and for each individual so the future becomes present.

I believe that we are all connected. And when we realize this connection, learn about the past, and make decisions about the future, we begin to move forward, not backward. This is how the process of living the life is organized.  Each person takes as much time as needed for them to process what they feel is important to them. Grieving, coping can take years and become a habit.  All I do is just remind you of that natural process of life learning and moving on.

I will see that your thoughts get posted, as well as any replies to this message.

With Love and Light,


Thursday, January 14, 2010

Miscarriage and Avatar

Hi Ladies:

The movie, Avatar, that I saw last night inspired me to continue with my blog for you. Without telling you the whole story, I will mention that the Avatar main hero in the movie fought for what he felt was the right thing to do. For himself and for the people. As a true leader, mythological hero.

He went onto a mission with a particular intention and when he received more information he was able to then transform in a way that enabled him to make a different decision about what was right for him.

Spiritual aspect of this belief is undeniable.

You can choose to live your life for your own fulfillment. And this is fine too.  Finding peace for your own soul is a life time endeavour for many of us.

Now I am talking about doing things for the people, as a contribution to the life in the Universe.

Consider your life part of the liquid flow of the life of all living beings. Then it becomes increasingly clear how important for the rest of us are your own personal growing and taking responsibility for your life choices.

Putting miscarriage behind you and learning to go on is an important way to getting to having your baby.

In fact it is the only way, and the faster it happens the better.

Some moms say they want to try to cope on their own, see what happens in a few months, try to "deal" with their emotions for a while, etc.

Notice the indefinite action intention here in the word TRY.

Some go deeper into grief as time goes on. Learning to live the new story now - I lost my pregnancy, I am a failure.  My body malfunctioned. What now?

Inspiring the sadness in themselves and their body, while thinking, watching or noticing a pregnant woman, envying every pregnant woman, doubting herself.

Indulging in sadness around pregnancy. Withdrawing from life. Feeling inadequate. Afraid to connect.

Indulgence in such ways is a dangerous activity in every aspect of it.

Dangerous, because the longer we go, acclimating with the sensations of sadness and grief in our bodies, in relation to pregnancy, the more firmly our body responds to triggers to that sadness in relation to pregnancy. In other words, more sadness flows in with activities associated with pregnancy: making love,  watching a movie about family, seeing other families, even eating dinner together with husband becomes a highlight of that internal emotion.

Instead of such indulgence and growing sense of inadequacy, STOP. Follow me into a great exercise that will open doors to your new pregnancy in your body, creating possibilities for your body to produce more eggs, to become fertile and pregnant again, easily with very little effort on your part.

All you have to do is follow me here to find that feeling that will help you create your new pregnancy.

A grieving ex-mom called for help.

A few deep breathing exercises quickly calmed her,  relaxed and helped her positive attitude, allowed her to begin to re-create her state of what she reported like, being in the flow, at her best, when she could not put her foot down wrong, all from a position of opportunity.

She began relevant exercises and worked with our guidance on the regular basis. We helped her get pregnant again. She is 43 years old and about to birth her first baby. I can't help sharing the radiant look in her eyes, that last time I saw her.

Her commitment to herself was strong. As we worked along together, some of her beliefs were challenged, some of her life had changed as a result of her commitment.

And the benefit is obvious, though, she is no longer sad.

Another woman, Olga, 39, came to me recently, I have only worked with her for a few months, she was very opinionated, yet spiritual. Her spiritual soul had uncovered more strength for her body to commit to change in attitude and belief, and to decide to consciously commit to being herself. Like Avatar, she began to fight for what is right for her.

What do you want? What are you willing to do to have that? What do you want to commit to?